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Ep. 10 That's a Good Question: "Peeling Back the Layers"

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Fat Daddy and Sweets return for Season 2 with an intimate conversation that peels back the layers of their friendship and Sweets' personal journey through thoughtful interview questions.

• Using "That's a Good Question" game cards to explore Sweets' experiences and perspectives
• Discussing how Sweets' self-care evolved from distraction-based to mindfulness and meditation
• Reflecting on childhood memories including Sweets' elaborate Sweet 16 party
• Exploring the complex dynamics between Sweets and her family relationships
• Sharing the origin story of their friendship at Kuumba Academy in 2005
• Teasing upcoming projects including merch, movies, short films, and something called "YAMZ"
• Examining personal growth and what it means to truly understand versus being understood

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Speaker 1:

what did you say? Because we're live now. Yeah, look, see, I put this on and she wasn't ready to start the pod. All right, listen, if y'all are here, you made it. You're a real one. This is the one you subscribe to. This is season two. Look at us with seasons. Season two, episode one. Technically it's episode 10, but y'all can't math for real. That is crazy. If you didn't know already, it's Fat Daddy. Hey, y'all.

Speaker 2:

And Sweets the goddess. I almost feel like we should be like last season on Fat Daddy and Sweets.

Speaker 1:

Like a power recap yeah. Which, by the way, we haven't seen the new one yet. We're getting there. Obviously, we're putting our content over everything else.

Speaker 2:

I'm super behind.

Speaker 1:

We are behind behind. Sweets is putting me on A Son's Anarchy, I'm putting her on Ozark, we're putting Bro on a Snowfall. We're all getting caught up on all the shows that we need to. If y'all have show suggestions, I am open to them. Give me some grace, boy. Do I want to just play 2K, but I haven't.

Speaker 2:

And movies too.

Speaker 1:

Movie suggestions yeah for sure, movies are definitely accepted. So what I realized in the last episode and last season we didn't talk about some of the stuff that we were supposed to because we started cooking about the financial literacy thing At least I thought we were cooking. Y'all will let us know, but you know we about to get back to that stuff which I will not specify. Sweets is going to let us know where we at, but what I think we owe y'all is a little bit of, como se dice, tender, loving care, so they get to know a little bit more about us. But we, starting with the ladies first, we're going with sweets, the goddess, and I'm gonna do this.

Speaker 1:

I have nine cards in my hand from a great game that is called. That's a good question and basically these are questions that you can get to know a friend group, with a, a friend, a partner, a coworker, whatever setting you choose to use these cards. They help you get to know people on a deeper level by asking good questions. I think that's a pretty good sales pitch, don't you think?

Speaker 2:

Sounds pretty good.

Speaker 1:

Shout out to them for making this game.

Speaker 2:

All these questions are for me.

Speaker 1:

All of them.

Speaker 2:

All nine Para mi.

Speaker 1:

Yes, all nine are for me. All of them all not on me. Yes, all nine are for you. That's how we starting this, and then we'll see how long it takes. I'm gonna try and rapid fire some a little bit nervous but don't be, don't be the first one, the first one's like.

Speaker 2:

Here you go, you ready all right, let's get it this is like the uh who wants to be a million yeah?

Speaker 1:

there you go see, that's what I'm talking about. I gotta adapt you, all right. Cool, that's a good question. Number one all right, if you had to go back and repeat one high school class, what subject would you pick?

Speaker 2:

hmm, yeah, hmm, come on probably probably my psychology class in high school yeah, I took ap psych oh and and conrad.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's pretty good education there it's the school of science. Yeah, they had a lot of good science classes so now I should.

Speaker 2:

I should have went to conrad and cab calloway yeah, well, yeah, I took ap psych and I got a college credit for it.

Speaker 1:

So, like going to ud, I was able to like so what are you going to do with that college credit? Well it's just a credit just sitting in limbo.

Speaker 2:

Well, no, like so, conrad, when you took AP classes. If you pass the AP test at the end of the year, you would get a college credit Well, only certain schools, but it would count towards your college credits and stuff. So I mean, no, I did not finish my college education.

Speaker 1:

I mean, hey, neither did I.

Speaker 2:

You know, know, it's not finished, but that doesn't mean that I won't. College is a scam boy, ain't it? But when you have that, when you have that piece of paper to make people respect you a little bit different, you know respect respect, not with the t at the end I just snorted on the phone but not for real. They hear you out a little bit different when you got certain. You know certifications and accolades around your name For sure, for sure.

Speaker 1:

Damn. I'm upset now.

Speaker 2:

Probably the AP Psych and just for funsies, I would probably like redo my animal science class, because that was lit.

Speaker 1:

Animal science. I took animal science. So which one between the psych and the animal science?

Speaker 2:

Well, I said AP Psych because I learned a lot and I feel like I should have took it even more serious, but animal science because that joint was fun, that shit was fun.

Speaker 1:

What did y'all do? Animal science? Yeah, because what are you saying that's fun for? So, first of all, what did you do? Dissect something.

Speaker 2:

No, no, no. It was like learning about all these different animals and in we had all these different pets that we all had to take care of Y'all.

Speaker 1:

Hear the excitement in her voice.

Speaker 2:

Dog, it was lit. We had birds, we had rabbits, we had turtles and lizards. There was a tarantula. I never touched it, though, but actually I'm lying I killed it by accident.

Speaker 1:

I'm sorry.

Speaker 2:

I killed it by accident.

Speaker 1:

Why are you excited about?

Speaker 2:

that I'm not excited. I actually was. I got in a lot of trouble, but what had happened was I'm scared of spiders, which you are aware of, and somebody thought it'd be funny to like put it on me. I snapped, I flung it and it didn't make it you committed murder. If anything, it was the person's fault. Who did it? What?

Speaker 1:

is that? What is that called A manslaughter?

Speaker 2:

no, that was self-defense no, it would be self-defense if that tarantula was trying to harm you what would you do if you're sitting there trying to be studious and next thing you know, the, the thing of your nightmares is creeping on your shoulder?

Speaker 1:

well, how you gonna. I can't relate to that.

Speaker 2:

But I'm saying what would you do?

Speaker 1:

you're just gonna let the thing of my nightmares. Okay, if I had nightmares and the thing of my nightmares, I'd probably freeze it was my worst fear.

Speaker 2:

Come to life all right I'm capping.

Speaker 1:

I would have probably grabbed it and like smashed it or something well, my first I was ah, and okay, so you didn't. Okay, it wasn't premeditated no, absolutely not.

Speaker 2:

It was self-defense involuntary manslaughter but anyway, you know, we had stuff we had like snakes we had. We had breeding gerbils to feed these things. We bred gerbils to feed these snakes. We bred gerbils to feed the snakes in our class, which is pretty diabolical. I think we raised the babies up just to feed them. It was pretty sad, but yeah.

Speaker 1:

Look at that. Involuntary manslaughter is a type of homicide that occurs when a person kills another unintentionally Okay While committing a crime or acting recklessly or negligently I was was none of those. Well, you the part. The first part applies what's the second part? The part where it says while committing a crime or acting recklessly or negligently so if I was like robbing a, a store, and then I drove out and hit somebody?

Speaker 1:

that's okay that's involuntary man okay but there's no law when it comes to killing spiders okay, unless it's like a insect that you can't kill because it's like the state bug or something crazy man I was.

Speaker 2:

I was still minding my business.

Speaker 1:

None of those apply, I wasn't doing none of that it's something, it's something legal that you did to that thing, like metaphorically. Anyways, that's a good answer. Okay, so you picked animal science as the number one no, I said, I picked two things for different reasons.

Speaker 2:

I said you get one option all right, I'm gonna say my, my ap psych class.

Speaker 1:

I redid that one again okay, let me just double check the question. I don't even know where I put it. Who cares? Here's question number two what do you do to unwind at the end of the day? How has that changed in the past five years?

Speaker 2:

well, it used to be like I would sit and maybe like binge watch a show or something or a movie that I liked. You know, we all have our vices and of course, I would indulge in mine as I was uh, as I was enjoying my show or or my or my movie, and then I would engorge myself with some good food.

Speaker 1:

Yes, engorge is just like that too.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, that's funny given the particular big back big back absolutely that was that's, that was self-care. To me that was self-care and that was a. That was a good ass night. You hear me. But I will say, as time has moved on, I've learned to I would engorge engorge myself with some good food.

Speaker 1:

I don't think it was a word that got me. It was how I said.

Speaker 2:

It was how you said it you gotta say it with a little chutzpah, with a little yo. This is wild.

Speaker 1:

I actually like this segment a lot chat, chat. You gotta let me know this is. I'm learning stuff about sweets too.

Speaker 2:

This is he's learning just how?

Speaker 1:

autistic I really am. I didn't say that. You said that I'm just, I'm thrown off by that. What did you say?

Speaker 2:

a little extra chutzpah. It's some, that's some jewish. You hear the? What did you say?

Speaker 1:

You gotta say a little extra chutzpah. That's some Jewish shit. I can hear the moisture when you said that.

Speaker 2:

You gotta say, look, you got popcorn stuck in the back of your throat. A little chutzpah.

Speaker 1:

A little chayim.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, it's Jewish I'm disgusting.

Speaker 1:

Oh my God.

Speaker 2:

But no, I was saying it's changed. Though In the time that's passed, you know, up until now, I've learned to. I learned to sit in silence and be alone with my thoughts.

Speaker 1:

I've gotten more into like meditation, oh come on.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you know, I realized that a lot of that stuff was a distraction and sometimes when I when I had no choice but to be faced with my thoughts, I wasn't coping very well. So I had to learn to to sit alone with my thoughts like what's special. My mind was racing and I was so in trouble.

Speaker 1:

You know, I had to learn to pray more, okay for the, for the chat that is not comfortable with being alone. What would you give them as a framework or piece of advice for getting more comfortable?

Speaker 2:

I feel like it boils down to a decision. Like I know with me, I got fed up with getting bullied by my thoughts.

Speaker 1:

I got fed up with. Oh, they was hitting you with haymakers, huh.

Speaker 2:

Yes, a lot of us have a dark corner in our minds that is pretty dark. You said in one of them episodes that your drums was dark.

Speaker 1:

D-A-W-K. Would your voice in your head be your friend?

Speaker 2:

Well, hmm, Hmm. That is a good question. I would say yes. Yes, my voice would be my friend, but also be someone who holds me accountable, like it's my toughest critic, but it would still be at the end okay, so they like build you down or break you down to build you up.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 2:

But yeah, I got to a point where it's like certain things I'd be asking myself like why am I feeling anxious? Why am I feeling sad? What am I doing to feel like this? I I had to learn to sit, to sit with my thoughts, to get to the root of why am I feeling like this, why am I always feeling anxious? And then you know, I learned a lot about myself just from sitting in silence and meditating.

Speaker 1:

Okay, unrelated question. Yes, what is your favorite thing about yourself?

Speaker 2:

My favorite thing. I'm stumping you with these questions.

Speaker 1:

I'm trying you my favorite thing about myself, yeah, and y'all want y'all to try and answer this about yourself as you listen to these questions also I think my favorite thing about myself is my ability to hear people out.

Speaker 2:

I feel like sometimes that's hard to do, even when when I'm when I'm angry, when I'm pissed off, I take pride in my ability to. I can at least hear what you're saying.

Speaker 1:

I'll give you that. No, you really do. Yeah that's good.

Speaker 2:

And that's your favorite thing about yourself. Yeah, because I didn't always have that. It's something I had to develop and it's like. It's like you know that took a took a lot to get here, but I'm that, I'm here I think we're all just as curious chan about what it took to get there.

Speaker 1:

But you know maybe it'll be revealed in another question. We're gonna keep on going with this. This is a good interview. I'm gonna pause the interview, though, because I failed to read this amazing bio that I have sitting in front of me about who y'all are learning from at this point in time. Right, because sweets the goddess has the. She has the floor on this episode and essentially, this is what she is all about, and I think it's I'm honored that I get to read this.

Speaker 1:

Sweets the goddess, a cool around the way, girl. If y'all know l? L cool, j y'all know what'm talking about. Who has been called a pick me for years Shame on them. Yet brings peace like no other to the men of her family and in her dating life. Sweets is back again, after her life experiences, to grace the mic and share her wealth of wisdom, knowledge and spiritual discernment for the ladies and men of the podcasting world. Sweets is multi-talented and does not shy away from her tism, and boy can she carry a tune which y'all know to be very, very true. She may not give herself enough credit, however, she's truly a comedic presence. Stick around for each episode as the chat which she named y'all, by the way and discover the many layers, shrek reference of Sweets the Goddess Ladies and gentlemen, Wow, sweets the Goddess, what a bio.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, oh my goodness, I don't know who authored that, but that person fried. That's a good one.

Speaker 2:

They must like me or something.

Speaker 1:

Oh my gosh, I just think it's well written.

Speaker 2:

What a bio yeah.

Speaker 1:

So that's who you're learning from and we're about to get on to? Oh, wait, hold on. What were you about?

Speaker 2:

to say I'm going to say well, I am flattered, my heart is just all a flutter.

Speaker 1:

Well, that's good. That's who you are. You should be flattered about what you bring to people. Oh, it doesn't happen enough. Where you pat yourself on the back on some, like Toy Story, you just rip Buzz's arm off and you pat yourself on the back. You should do that more often. Okay, question three. You ready. This one might be fun. I forgot the theme. What was your favorite childhood birthday and what made it memorable? Ooh, ooh, gotcha with another one.

Speaker 2:

My favorite childhood birthday and what?

Speaker 1:

these are tough. You got.

Speaker 2:

You have the chat waiting bro I know I'm trying to think um you gotta think okay okay, okay, I'm thinking, I'm thinking so what are you trying to think?

Speaker 1:

like what is I'm?

Speaker 2:

trying to think of my most memorable birthdays. My most memorable one I wasn't really that little. I had a sweet 16, which I invited you to, by the way, oh man, and your raggedy ass didn't come. But that's neither here nor there. It was lit, though, because all right, so around the time I had my sweet.

Speaker 1:

You know, I just about to go by on that, excuse you, okay. What year was that?

Speaker 2:

you, raggedy. It was like that was like 2010, 2011, maybe 2010, definitely running the streets it was. That was like 2010,.

Speaker 1:

2011, maybe 2010. I was definitely running the streets. That was 2010. I was running the streets.

Speaker 2:

Dog. Whatever, I still invited. Thank you for the invite. It's still a Facebook messenger as we speak.

Speaker 1:

I was taken, okay, I wasn't coming.

Speaker 2:

So what you could have brought her too. I had a boyfriend. I was just invited, I wanted you to come to my. I said, hey, long you know.

Speaker 1:

On what platform?

Speaker 2:

It was on Facebook.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah, all right, that ain't a legitimate one for me At that time.

Speaker 2:

What you mean. You answered me back.

Speaker 1:

What did I say?

Speaker 2:

You were just like oh, I'm so flattered you remembered me. You gave me some bullshit and you said that you would try some dumb shit like that.

Speaker 1:

Well, I wasn't coming.

Speaker 2:

Anyways, that's neither here nor there. It was the most memorable because around the time when I had my sweet 16, y'all remember on MTV, when they had that joint on my super sweet 16 with all them spoiled ass teenagers and they was cussing their parents out for their party and shit Well, I happened to be obsessed with that show. So I was determined to have a fucking sweet 16. And guess what? I was going to be a fucking brat, just like them people on the show. I was determined. I was like, oh yeah, I'm gonna pass out my invitations, I'm gonna make niggas nerd like not nervous, jealous. I was gonna be like you can come, you can't come, you can come. I had it all. I had it all set up. Like, oh, this is about to be lit playing my entrance I had a dj. You feel me? That shit was lit and it happened just the way I said it would, the way I had my invitations. I rolled them up like scrolls right and did you tie a little ribbon around?

Speaker 1:

it.

Speaker 2:

They had a ribbon on it and shit. It was so cute and we opened it. It was a flyer and it said you are invited to Tori's. It was so cute and everybody in school was talking about like yo never even fucked with Try to be my friend and shit. Like nah, nah, don't try to be my friend because you want to come to the party. You know that shit going to be lit. My shit was lit but yeah, I got to make my entrance. Dj played my song for me, but he didn't play the right one, the joint he was supposed to Fuck. What song was I supposed to?

Speaker 1:

come out to.

Speaker 2:

He wrong song. What song was I supposed to come out to see that? No, no, no, no. I think it was that I'm so glad was it that june?

Speaker 1:

was it all at the time? I don't know chad, she don't know what song I can't remember what song, although she said that this was her most memorable birthday.

Speaker 2:

I can't remember the song, but I remember the dj had it fucked up but you know it was still lit. You feel me? Everybody had a ball. Everybody's talking about it. There's people making out in the parking lot and shit. It was just like it was a whole big thing. But yeah, it was. It was pretty cool. That's funny that is funny if y'all want to know how people do it for their sweet 16 in the 302.

Speaker 1:

That's how they do it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I had a hall and everything. I was like, oh my god, where was it at? What was it called? I don't know, was it? Like a bfw hall or something like maybe it was like a like you know how churches have like separate yeah yeah it was like one of them type john you had it at the, at the spiritual place you had it at church.

Speaker 2:

I mean kind of it was the hall next to the church but it wasn't a fellowship room? No, that is heinous. It wasn't a fellowship room, I forgot what it was called you had it in the prayer. It's called our lady great of grace town or something I don't know. That is wild, but we had that job turning and it was swagging on.

Speaker 1:

My party was lit I'm glad I didn't come.

Speaker 2:

I would have felt all conflicted being you would have had a ball. You're like oh, this is your shit.

Speaker 1:

I would have been thinking about god the whole time no, stop that lie, stop that it lie, it's a lie.

Speaker 2:

No, you went ahead.

Speaker 1:

Did I or did I not talk to the man while I was hunching?

Speaker 2:

That's different.

Speaker 1:

No, it ain't yeah exactly.

Speaker 2:

That's different. You was at a different place in your life back then. You said so yourself.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, but that doesn't mean I didn't know, god, you having a 316 at a church it wasn't the actual. It was like a overflow building no no, no, no, like so, boom it's like it was in the same building it's not in the same building.

Speaker 2:

No, like you got that, you got the church and sanctuary and all that on one side of the parking lot, then you go over across the parking lot and it's it's an overflow building dog, no man anyway the way we had that joint set up. It looked like a little club in there, you feel me? The lights was popping, the music was bumping. You feel me you pull up. You can hear the.

Speaker 1:

I said oh, this joint gonna be.

Speaker 2:

No, but I'm saying that's just the equivalent. You can hear the beat from it.

Speaker 1:

They said man, wait, I didn't go.

Speaker 2:

Wait, wait, wait.

Speaker 1:

That joint was what a time, what a time. Okay, I guess our sweet 16 was the most memorable. We don't have the receipt. See, that's the thing. Guys don't have sweet 16s, we just don't. They don't give a damn. It's all right, bro, it's all about the ladies. Next question what? What's the best compliment you've ever been given about your impact on others? And you gotta think out loud, because these moments of silence are not okay here all right, okay, I'm thinking my impact on others yeah, you impacted others. What's your best compliment?

Speaker 2:

hmm, that people feel heard when they, when they're with me, when they talk to me. Everybody that has talked to me said like wow, you, you are a great listener. And they always say that they feel heard or they feel like they could talk to me about anything. That was a great compliment, very consistent, yes I like it rapid fire.

Speaker 1:

This one's gonna stump you, I think so all right, I'm gonna let that go after this.

Speaker 2:

I don't think I'm hitting it I don't think I'm hitting it.

Speaker 1:

I don't even know what question this is. What is this?

Speaker 2:

question four is that it?

Speaker 1:

that's it right damn, I'm wrapping. No, it's question five no these are just good questions, okay. Okay, if you could reconnect with and revive a friendship from childhood, who would it be?

Speaker 2:

Wow.

Speaker 1:

And again, again reminder this is for y'all to think about too.

Speaker 2:

If I could reconnect with.

Speaker 1:

Turn your volume up, sweets.

Speaker 2:

If I could reconnect with and revive a friendship from childhood, who would it be?

Speaker 1:

Damn, you got a name drop.

Speaker 2:

I do, you have, I do that's crazy and you gotta send this episode to him. You know what I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do that shit and I feel like that's. It's not hard, because I've only had a couple friends since childhood and the the first one that comes to mind, and probably the one that I think about the most, is her name is Caitlin. Me and Caitlin were friends. We met in fourth grade and my pops and them had just moved down to North Carolina and we were living in the neighborhood. Her family had just moved in directly across the street, directly across the street dog, and I'll never forget seeing her family moved in Me and her started talking. I was like, what's your name? And I told her my name and we just clicked.

Speaker 1:

We were friends ever since she had autism too.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, she was just like me, except a little more country. You feel me?

Speaker 1:

Oh, she was a southern peach.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, she's from North Carolina.

Speaker 1:

I'm from North Carolina.

Speaker 2:

North Carolina. Yeah, yeah, and loved her family. Her family loved me. Like I'll call her my mom.

Speaker 1:

She'll call my mom, mom, when was the last time you talked to her?

Speaker 2:

We keep in touch a little bit here and there now, but see her and I fell out maybe like this was 2016, 2017. Oh no Over some dumb shit. Really stupid you have to share this, I will, I will. But things got really ugly between us and it didn't have to especially off the strength of what we were. We called really ugly between us and it didn't, it didn't have to especially off the strength of what we were.

Speaker 2:

You know, we called each other sisters, you feel me. So for us to follow the way we did, that was pretty ugly. That happens, though it does, it does, it happens. But I will say, at the point we are in life now, like you know, we've definitely grown past that. But yeah, that was my dog, my man, 100 grand it went since day one so I would say that if that's something I would provide, it would be.

Speaker 2:

it would be her, it would be her, it would be Caitlyn. I'm going to send it to her. She probably going to be like I don't know. I don't even know what she would say.

Speaker 1:

I haven't heard her voice in a long time. That's the good part about this. This is good. This is good.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

This one going to be no, no, no, no, we ain't going to do this one. Oh, so y'all know, we with the whole, who wants to be a millionaire thing. If you could receive a heartfelt letter of affection and or appreciation from one person in your family, who would it be from and why? That might be the best question in this deck for the chat and for you. I'm going to repeat the question because that's insane. I'm going to repeat the question because that's insane.

Speaker 2:

If you could receive a heartfelt letter of affection and or appreciation from one person in your family, who would it be from and why? That made me hot a little bit.

Speaker 1:

That is tough, made the tips of my ears hot.

Speaker 2:

That's tough. Why, though? Because I feel like damn, that's from anyone in my family, Anyone in your family.

Speaker 1:

Who do you want this heartfelt letter of affection or appreciation from?

Speaker 2:

That is really tough.

Speaker 1:

We can come back to it if you need time.

Speaker 2:

I think we need time, because it's hard to narrow it down to just one person.

Speaker 1:

Damn, you got smoke for a few people. Sorry, not smoke.

Speaker 2:

It's not necessarily smoke.

Speaker 1:

It's some folks that owe you. Thank you is what I'm assuming.

Speaker 2:

I feel like there's a couple people that I'm like yo. It would be nice to hear you know.

Speaker 1:

Okay, we'll let you, we'll let you chew that over. I'm going to have to chew that over. We'll let you chew that over that next question because she needed to take a breather. Y'all probably needed to take a breather because that question is good, but I already have my answer. If I were to answer that, a lot of these I'm like wit, because I just like being by myself. What environments ignite your imagination and bring out your best work?

Speaker 2:

I feel like being around like-minded people who are um, who have a progressive mindset, because sometimes there's there's people who are like-minded like me, but they're they're kind of stuck in this.

Speaker 1:

We'll call it, we'll call it growth mindset for all the buzzword people out there yeah have a growth mindset, which is really great. I'm just making fun of, like the. Everything needs a label for people to think oh, yeah, yeah, let's call it that.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I tend to get inspired by others around me, like when I hear other people talk about something they're passionate about. I'm like, I like that.

Speaker 1:

See, now it's time for the segment that fires me up. Later on we're going to have one that's called Dweebin Out. I like that, I, I like that. If you like something like it, and wear it and be proud of that joint. Yeah. It makes you unique.

Speaker 2:

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 1:

Okay, that's a great answer. I like that. We will let you get a pass. You passed that one. This one's cool. This is a fun question. Are you ready, let's hear it. Would you rather have the ability to play any instrument, but only when no one is around, or be able to instantly understand any language of your choice, but not speak it?

Speaker 2:

oh, I'd rather instantly understand the language but not be able to speak it yeah you're trying to eavesdrop yeah, and I thought

Speaker 2:

that's more useful like okay, if I could play any instrument that I want, yeah, that's cool. But like and I can't prove it to nobody I'd be like dog. You got to hear like I can really play the piano, real shit. They'd be like, oh yeah, and I can't. I can't prove it to you. Yeah, you can't even. But no, I'm really nice on the guitar you just got to, but I just can't show you them.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, they be like bro's phrase that's cap and crunch. Nah, he said that one day on the phone I was crying.

Speaker 2:

It was about lebron and how he always lies about the books he reads.

Speaker 1:

I like that with the berries yeah, bro, you are fully, you are crunch berries that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

I'm like, no, no, no, but for real, though, that's stupid, but to be able to understand any language is so useful I could go anywhere.

Speaker 1:

No, I can't speak this shit, but I can buy yeah yeah, you can really get that passport tatted up and just be able to indulge I'm gonna find somebody who can speak a little bit of english.

Speaker 1:

And I can, and you know I can you could really communicate a lot with the non-verbals though, for real. For real, like if you eavesdrop on something like, I'm looking at it as um. Like if I hear an altercation going on or like a verbal altercation, I can like intervene. That's my superman complex that I have where it's like yo nah, you're not about to talk, nerd like that. Or why are you not paying this man the money he deserves for the thing I can like?

Speaker 2:

help with that.

Speaker 1:

You got that superman complex, bro, I like I want to help a lot of problems but then, at the same time, motherfuckers don't want to be helped, so fuck them.

Speaker 2:

My problem is that ain't my business.

Speaker 1:

That's more of what I'm on now and that's also hard for me, like you've been here for me where I'm like yo, I really could help them out. But fuck them, fuck them, let them drown In the words of Sweet. Sometimes you got to let them drown. Okay, you got one question until you get to the one that stumped you, and then we can get into all the fun stuff and we're doing pretty good on time. We got 15 minutes-ish. I think you'll be able to get through these in three minutes. Here we go. How would you describe your parents' parenting style? Yeah, cook them.

Speaker 2:

Their parenting style.

Speaker 1:

Together Collectively.

Speaker 2:

Collectively, I would say. The first word that comes to mind is un. Oh, I'm not sure if that's a parenting style, but it's damaged and unhealed, wow. But I will also say they did the best that they could with what they had at the time.

Speaker 1:

I mean yeah.

Speaker 2:

So there's some grace in that truth. I will give them grace for that, because I mean, I get it. Not all parents are perfect. No parent is perfect, but I believe that if you love your kid, you're going to do the best that you can. It all depends on how you take feedback. But then I also look at it like you know I was raised by damaged people.

Speaker 1:

You about to have me go off on a tangent.

Speaker 2:

Please do, please weigh in.

Speaker 1:

No, I don't want to do that right now, not in the middle of your interview Weigh in. All I wanted to say is that, like people for the longest time before I had my first kid would say that I can't give advice on parenting right, and I always argued that I don't have to have a kid to know what it's like to be a kid and know what I didn't like from my parents. So it wasn't like, hey, this is what you should do. I know this is what your kid doesn't like, because I was a kid before. You know what I mean.

Speaker 1:

So when it comes to that, and when you say unhealed, I think they just didn't take feedback. Well, at least that's what I associated it to, because I'm like bro, they did the best they could for what they had, but you probably gave them like, instead of doing this, try doing this and that'll work for me. Gave him like, instead of doing this, like, try doing this and that'll work for me. You know, because, like the type of communicator that you are now, I know that it wasn't as evolved as it is now, but I know you was advocating for yourself I was trying to, and I will say you know that that older generation is.

Speaker 1:

It's like you know you can't talk, you can't. What's the generation? The boomers the boomers?

Speaker 2:

yeah, y'all suck, ain't no talking to them like you know all of you boomers that listen to this. Y'all suck no real shit. You tell a boomer like and you can know in your heart as a kid that you are right, but they tell you you wrong.

Speaker 2:

You got no choice but to eat that ain't no ain't no talking to them, ain't no reasoning with them, is what they say goes, or you get that ass whooped like that's just, that's just what it was. But when I say unhealed, like I look at how my parents used to cope with things and how that kind of bled onto me and my siblings a little bit. Sometimes my dad was avoidant in the sense that you talking attachment styles now. No, when I say avoidant, I mean with certain issues. He would just not talk about it or act like it didn't happen.

Speaker 1:

You're talking about attachment styles. Maybe, and what's it called?

Speaker 2:

How he handles trauma. For sure I would say like that that it makes a lot of sense. With all the things that he's seen, all the death that he's been around in his life, I understand why he kind of just keeps it pushing and just kind of kicks it under the rug. But also at the same time it's like, damn, how do I know you're keeping it a buck with me or how do I know that you're gonna, like you know, really tell me everything, if that's how you handle things. And then with my mom, she's someone who can't let things go. She doesn't let things go, she holds on to things and she harbors things and harps over them and then again it kind of bleeds onto us. So it's like two very opposite ends of the spectrum and having to deal with both sides of them chat.

Speaker 1:

Let us know if we should do a episode about attachment styles, because I could really go off on that. I think people need to know what their love language is, what your attachment style is and which of the four agreements most applies to your life. At a very minimum, that's a tangent real quick, but that's something that I want to talk about and I may just talk about it anyway. So I feel like people should know. Quick, but that's something that I want to talk about and I may just talk about it anyway. So I feel like people should know that. But that's a good answer. Are you ready yet for your last question?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I guess. So, before we get into all the other stuff, as ready as I'm going to be, All right, here you go.

Speaker 1:

Don't leave the chat hanging in this silence, right right, get ready to cook, okay. If get ready to cook, okay, if you could receive a heartfelt letter I'm reading it slow on purpose you got to answer of affection and or appreciation from one person in your family. Who would it be and why? Okay?

Speaker 2:

well. So I feel like when you asked me this question at first, there was, there was somebody who came to mind first and ever since I've been thinking about it, this person keeps resurfacing, although it's a few people, this person, comes to the top.

Speaker 1:

Well, listen, listen to that.

Speaker 2:

I am, I am. I would have to say it would be my stepmother, and it's not because.

Speaker 1:

Does she listen to the pod?

Speaker 2:

Well, I haven't sent it to her. She will eventually. She will. And I say this because it's not that she's never lacked in showing me affection. She's always done her best to try to include me and my brothers as her children, as her own. But I will say there's just been a lot of things that her and I have never always seen eye to eye on, even though we try. We try to push past it for the sake of, you know, being family and we, at the end of the day, we do love each other. But there's just certain things that I feel like she doesn't feel me on and probably vice versa, certain things I don't feel her on and I just feel like there's a certain perception that she might have in me, or she might see me in a certain way, that she's not really that, not who I am, or maybe that she's not willing to see. I'm not sure what it is, but we still have. We have a few come to jesus moments that we have to have.

Speaker 1:

So, yeah, that's the person I would say, if I could give some unsolicited advice, I would say screw, listening to it here.

Speaker 2:

I think you should talk to her about that, like asap, and I feel like that's that's also something that I I have to have the emotional strength to do. You ain't ducking no smoke. It's not that I'm ducking smoke, but I feel like you know how it is when talking to someone who's triggered you a lot before or who tends to exasperate a lot out of you emotionally. I don't know about you, but for me it takes a lot of mental preparation to do so, because it's going to take a lot out of me afterwards.

Speaker 1:

Well see, that's the thing, the person it's going to take a lot out of me afterwards. Well see, that's the thing. The person I think about would be my dad. I figured he was gonna say that it doesn't take any mental preparation because I'm using this. You say what's on your mind. What is he gonna do? Hit me over the phone, you can't. You can't do anything. And if he doesn't like it, guess what he can do hang up. You can also hang up, I think advice for the chat stop being pussy up, you can also hang up, I think.

Speaker 2:

Advice for the chat stop being pussy no, you can always hit that red button. You always say that, but I also look at it like, if I'm going to take the time to have this talk with you, the thought that you still probably aren't going to feel where I'm coming from. You're still not going to hear me, because I feel like there's been times where I've tried my best to explain it, so I'm blue in the face it's not about that.

Speaker 1:

It's not about seeing. See, what I hear in that is you're trying to be understood. I think you should switch it. Try and understand. I've done that, though.

Speaker 2:

Well, and that's what gets frustrating. I feel like I'm the only one that's being understanding when you quit.

Speaker 1:

Interesting yeah, that's an ongoing, never-ending process in a relationship with somebody is the seeking to understand more than you're trying to be understood thing that never stops for the chat this is for y'all too.

Speaker 1:

This is something that I learned through uh therapy with scott greg. Shout out to my man, scott I'm saying his first and last name, because he's just that great of a therapist that never stops. That never, ever stops. And if you want the relationship to change or be better, you can't ever quit, ever, never, ever. As long as they're alive and they have a heart that beats. That will always be a problem that you will have to address. If you value that relationship. If you don't, then fuck it. But if you value it all y don't, then fuck it. But if you value it all, y'all. Both got work to do, but the person who wants it to work the most has not. You don't have the option to quit. You don't, and that's that's a, that's a bar. I'm giving that to y'all straight from my therapy sessions, my personal ones, and that's great. That's a great way to to get going on this. All right, we got 10 minutes All right, that was good.

Speaker 2:

Can we get to the fun stuff?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, Shit, that was fun.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I mean, that was cool.

Speaker 1:

Y'all go get this game and tell me it's not fun. If y'all are really into the growth mindset and learning about yourself and the people around you a little bit deeper than normal. This is deeper than normal. This is what I do on a natural when I spend time with people, because I don't really need this deck to ask questions. But if you do need a little bit of help, this game helps you that's pretty good.

Speaker 2:

Not gonna lie, I made my ears hot on a couple of that's what it's supposed to do.

Speaker 1:

Don't duck smoke sounds pretty good all right, so we just gonna take us away into the next segment. Let's get it well chat.

Speaker 2:

Next segment we got coming up is we're going to tell you about how we met.

Speaker 1:

How this all started. Well, it was 2005. We'll get that out of the way. So y'all do the math on it. We met in 2005. And our demographics are from 25 to 34, primarily, so some of y'all might not have even been like really, really mature at that point we weren't mature, we weren't but, like, given where we came from, yeah, I'd say we were quite mature as 2005 years old you think so, yeah, I've seen. I've seen a lot. Then I think that maturity and experience comes from that itself experience.

Speaker 2:

I mean, I'd always been told I was mature for my age, but I was definitely.

Speaker 1:

I'm an old soul.

Speaker 2:

Likewise, but I also know I was a goofy kid.

Speaker 1:

That doesn't mean you can't be goofy and mature. Goofy, 10 year old kid Did you stick out in your friend group as the more mature one. All right, I ain't talking about like you all knowing. I'm saying, out of your friend group were you the most mature one typically I was always a little bit different, so there you go, yeah that's all I'm saying. But yeah, 2005 is when we met at uh academy.

Speaker 2:

What's that mean?

Speaker 1:

creativity it sure does. And boy, what is that right there?

Speaker 2:

that's a creative crap talking to talk about my hoodie, my hoodie, my b friends hoodie b friends.

Speaker 1:

Hoodie, there you go. It is a charter school that teaches you about everything african culture, african culture, kwanzaa, what the colors mean on them, candles Can I just?

Speaker 2:

real quick. I only got to spend one year at Kuumba, which sucks, but I came from like a private school where it was not gonna lie, it was mostly white kids there and it was like only a handful of small black kids To the motherland.

Speaker 2:

And then I came to Kaumba Academy. I'll never forget when my mom told me where I was going. You said what she said you're going to be going to Kaumba Academy. I said, excuse me, how do you say the name? I went from Conquer Christian Academy where we had chapel every Wednesday it was probably the most fair-skinned thing you could, I didn't gonna lie. Chapel was lit. Sometimes we had this guy come in. He would paint pictures for us and shit it was. They would have little plays and stuff, puppet shows. It was cool Puppet. They would have puppet shows, but it would be about something from the Bible. They would tell us Bible stories. It was cute. That was cute. Anyway, that's how I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Speaker 2:

That was some of the most.

Speaker 1:

I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Speaker 2:

That was some of the most fair skin shit I've ever did. There was not one black teacher in that building. When I went, we did not have one black teacher.

Speaker 1:

And in a classroom. And no, she's not racist.

Speaker 2:

I'm not racist. This is a fact.

Speaker 1:

Representation.

Speaker 2:

When I was at that school, there was not one black teacher.

Speaker 2:

Or I don't even think there's a black lunch lady. There wasn't any black staff. But I will say in a in a chat, in a classroom with maybe like 15 to 20 kids, maybe five of us were black. You were the black sheep. Yeah, literally so. And I went there from pre-k up until like third grade, then fourth grade. I went down south with my pops and went to it was called Sherwood Elementary, where there's also just a couple black kids and a lot of fair-skinned children. But then when my mom said you're going to Kaumba Academy, I said what is that? Even, ew, I'm going where. And she told me where it was. I said it's what? And I'll never forget. When I pulled up I was like, oh, they're going to eat me alive in here. They're going to eat me alive.

Speaker 1:

You know, I want to know. This is a charter school, but it's the closest thing to getting ready for public school that you can get Damn, oh my God. I had a great time at that school and I was there in 2002 when the school was founded. I was the first one of the first students in that school that's pretty neat.

Speaker 1:

I can't wait to go back there and talk and speak. That's on my agenda. To go back to where I came from and what I learned and what I appreciated the most about that school that was fire. That was fire. Got into tap, dance, hip-hop yo poetry like breaking down bag lady with um what's her name?

Speaker 2:

she had the cannons miss webb, miss webb, miss webb no disrespect, miss webb, but holy crap bro did you carry a lot on the front, she in the back oh, I didn't lie, I wasn't on that miss webb had a lot going on.

Speaker 1:

I was just like holy crap, dude, how did she put on that dashiki? No, not dashiki she was wearing dashikis, but she taught me a lot about like lyric breakdown, which is one of my she could like sing really good, right, yeah okay, we're talking about. Yeah, she taught us how to square dance she like skin yeah, okay, had the natural fro.

Speaker 2:

She had the pick in that joint no, miss webb used to like press her hair.

Speaker 1:

No, this one had a well. Maybe, maybe this is somebody that you didn't know I don't even remember her name, but I know the impact she had on me.

Speaker 2:

Was she the lady that, like I'll go?

Speaker 1:

I may.

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah, I remember her. Yeah, bro, she was okay she was far, far bro see, and that's that's another thing when I well, first of all, when I came to this school and they told us what are what? Do they call them electives?

Speaker 1:

or, like you know, like art class classes.

Speaker 2:

okay. Well, y'all know how, outside of like math and reading and all that, you got your fun classes like art gym. They said, oh, we're going to, we have dance. I said, excuse me, mm-hmm, yeah, we have to go here, we have dance.

Speaker 1:

I said what? Because that is what's popular to the African culture.

Speaker 2:

No, absolutely Dance. And music. You know, for the chat that didn't go there you know, you gotta explain that I was so elated I said, what that's one of y'all's like elective joins? And then when I got to the studio and I saw the teacher, mr ken, I said, oh, I'm gonna love it here you gotta check on him.

Speaker 1:

I'm gonna love it, we gotta find him.

Speaker 2:

He's probably on linkedin or something man, this man for reference chat, this man used to teach us and and he had these tight biker shorts and he would wear these tank tops that was cut to shit and you could see his nipples and everything and he would cut them in tassels why is that a pertinent?

Speaker 2:

because that was a, that was a big thing for me. I said, wow, look at this. But but he was amazing, though, and his energy was unmatched, and he was barefoot, and his feet was that's not important but I was about to say what are you trying to tell him? But no, he was one of the best teachers there. I was like, oh, this is lit. And then going to the music class and we had stuff like festivals. You remember the festival?

Speaker 1:

in 5th grade, bro, what do you mean? I was there from 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th.

Speaker 2:

Y'all did the festival every year.

Speaker 1:

Every year.

Speaker 2:

Oh, I thought that we were involved in the community in town.

Speaker 1:

It's on Market Street. If y'all don't know, if y'all from Wilmington you go to Market Street, coimbra is still there.

Speaker 2:

As far as I know, I haven't been back to that area in a minute. I know somebody whose little sisters went there.

Speaker 1:

And they're growing. They're growing as a school. They're doing a lot better. I think the building is renovated, they got iPads and phones and and all that cool stuff, but anyways, the school is where I met queen sweets, the goddess, oh, man and boy was I I don't even know how to get into into like our dynamic, like I mean, I don't even think we have enough time for this for real. For real, like this is the subscriber only episode and I think that they can handle it. Long story, less long your boy was always in trouble and it wasn't because I was like mischievous, I was just. I like to laugh. I would learn at a level where I could be done with my work early and then just crack jokes.

Speaker 1:

But my teachers never appreciated that and I was always either kicked out or kicked out or kicked out, and usually with my desk and in the hallway I was getting fried by the teachers, but I was having a great time. I was having a great time and then, you know, I would see this fine joint that had, uh, we had to wear shirts to indicate what grade we were in and we had uniform. Like you, wear that color shirt. It's like a polo, but not a polo it was like a purple jar yeah, right, for fifth grade it was purple, like the coolest color purple too.

Speaker 1:

I actually like that shirt a lot and then you wore some like khaki pants, cargo, whatever, um, but she had her joints like tucked yeah, her shirt tucked in and the belt was awesome. If you know what that looks like, bro, she had the joint like it looked like a corset oh my god but then she had the whammy fifth grade is crazy I was like where are they built like that?

Speaker 2:

no way, mc, I would have never known. We were technically in two, we were in two separate fifth grade classes and I would like go to the bathroom and I would see him in his desk in the hallway. I'll be walking by like damn damn he out here again. I was out there an hour ago. He be out there pissed. He be out there flinging his pencil and shit, with an attitude and I would probably say something like damn, they kicked you out again.

Speaker 1:

I don't even know what I was on that time, bro. I just it was always fuck y'all. Ja, meir Tyler Hunter Trey. Meir Tyler Hunter Trey Mears. All y'all be outside, that's the Mount Rushmore bro.

Speaker 2:

All y'all be out in the hallway.

Speaker 1:

They were funny as shit bro. I loved them to death for real, for real, and I hope they're all doing well, but fuck y'all niggas in fifth grade.

Speaker 2:

Y'all all used to be put out.

Speaker 1:

And I thought she was somebody else's. That's the part that think.

Speaker 2:

I was cute because a lot of boys in Kumbha at that time I was an uggamug. They'd be like ugh Tori, ugh.

Speaker 1:

They thought she was masculine. Yeah, I used to play football with y'all Like tomboyish masculine. She was like insecure about her voice at some point, maybe still a little bit, I don't know. Not no more that to me was like heinous, because I was like bro, she is fine. I didn't even know what fine meant in 2005. But I was just like bro. I like her.

Speaker 2:

You had like three other girlfriends.

Speaker 1:

I was on some hunch whore.

Speaker 2:

In fifth grade is wild Young boy.

Speaker 1:

I'm trying to get some neck and kiss. You probably wouldn't have liked me. The first time I played the nervous game was in third grade. If y'all don't know what the nervous game is, bro, you know what it is. Are you nervous? Are you nervous? Yeah, I was on some like mischievous, like not mischievous, but I was on some like curiosity, sexual curiosity, discovery type stuff on top of learning. I was learning a lot, but I was just like bro, these girls, bro, I love girls, girls, girls, girls, girls. I do a dog and put your number on this paper because I would love to date you holler at you when I get out of class. That's what I was on. I was on that jay-z ish you wouldn't like me.

Speaker 2:

I was such a prude. I'd be like you. Want to do what? Gasp?

Speaker 1:

no clutching my pearls nothing, I was a little box head, uh, microscopic little dude, but I was. You know, were you shorter than me?

Speaker 2:

yeah, you were.

Speaker 1:

I was a midget not, excuse me, little person you were short in it. I feel like I do remember that because I was short too damn yeah, I was tiny but I had a big energy I remember how your your voice used to sound too, yeah but that drum was like several octaves higher. It was like Minnie Mouse or Mickey Mouse One of them for real.

Speaker 2:

I remember that drum, so that made it funnier when you cracked jokes, because your voice was higher, and then I would break out in.

Speaker 1:

The best time to wear a striped sweater is all the time.

Speaker 2:

One with a collar Turtle neck.

Speaker 1:

And if y'all not singing along y'all not chat for real.

Speaker 2:

I cannot hit this note. I'm not doing that, cause we.

Speaker 1:

At that time I could hit that yeah, right now your boy went through puberty and I can't do it.

Speaker 2:

That's why I was shocked when I found you again in adulthood. I was like that's your voice now.

Speaker 1:

That is crazy it happened over the summer between 10th and 11th grade, and I didn't even know. I woke up and said morning, mom. She said, uh, excuse me, I had big hands, big feet. I was. And then my voice just changed. And I was like yo, I'm a teenager, Ew you know, what I mean.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

That's funny how he went from goofy-ass kid 10-year-old kids to now.

Speaker 1:

To goofy-ass parents.

Speaker 2:

Goofy-ass parents.

Speaker 1:

That's nuts, goofy-ass adults. How the hell do we have kids?

Speaker 2:

We're responsible for little human beings for real. That's what I'm saying. Is it weird to say that I still feel like, not like I'm the same person I was in fifth grade, but like I feel like I'm still. Hmm, how can I explain it? I'm still me like I was back then. I just got more responsibilities. Now that makes sense. Like I still feel like I'm like going to high school. I'm in high high school. I'm just like I got responsibility.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, you're just a COO. Now You're a chief operating officer of Fattened Sweets LLC.

Speaker 2:

Oh, my God.

Speaker 1:

In the entertainment industry.

Speaker 2:

That's crazy to say.

Speaker 1:

Yams is coming soon. I'm saying it now. Oh no, on another episode.

Speaker 2:

On another episode. I'm going to break it down for y'all.

Speaker 1:

Well, no, we got to end this with a hey, here's what's coming Movies, short films, cartoons, books, yams.

Speaker 2:

Just to name a few.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, just to name a few. Oh man, I want to talk about yams. That's going to go crazy. 'all are gonna love yams. I know it is. We gotta end it on this, because they're like what the hell are they talking about yams for?

Speaker 2:

y'all gotta tune in, y'all gotta that's gonna be a household name in about 10 years y'all remember that. Oh, I just know, I know it's gonna go crazy.

Speaker 1:

I don't even want to spill the beans right. Spoiler alert in the next few episodes potentially but like only the subscribers get to hear that oh, yeah, damn, what a great, this is a great time. We still ain't even get to the good stuff, so we gotta save that for another one, but this is a good. Season two, episode one get to know sweets, if y'all want to know me. Nah, who cares, it's not about me, for I'm just like out here we could do a get to know fat daddy, that's only if they ask for it.

Speaker 1:

because, bro, because I don't, I think.

Speaker 2:

They didn't ask for this.

Speaker 1:

They didn't ask for it, but I think that, like I noticed that I be rapping for real, we were just talking about that and I think that this is a great way to pass the baton, pass the torch to you. You know, you are very much like a cornerstone of this, this thing. Oh, thank you, and who I am currently Like you definitely have a lot to do with it and I don't want them to forget that. Thank you. This is fat and sweets, not just fat, daddy.

Speaker 1:

You know what I mean. I didn't even get that name for myself. So, like all credit to you, know my right hand, my dog, Appreciate it. You know what I mean and that's it. We're gonna wrap this one up and get y'all up out of here. You stinking animals, stinking idiots. It's been a pleasure indeed. I like interviewing you. This is good thank you and chat.

Speaker 1:

Please, please, please, please, as my daughter says, please let us know what y'all think. We uh, we do respond to the emails, but y'all are not emailing. So, dm, like y'all, do typically always get text requests. Lindsey, I did not forget about you, bro, you give us some heat to talk about. We might have to take everything you've said so far and put it into one episode about that. She got some great content we. I just haven't found time to put it in there yet.

Speaker 1:

So just know for the folks that were the early nine subscribers oh, y'all's input is coming because y'all y'all bringing some heat. So, thank you again. Let's end it on some gratitude thanks. They'll be alive. Shout out to the man upstairs for that. And we would not be doing this if it wasn't for y'all subscribers and listeners and viewers and sharers and all that. Merch is coming soon too, by the way, the shopify store is being built. We're waiting on our ein to come in, and then, after that is green bean for all my 2k folks, which I'm about to hop on a playstation portable for a fro. Um, but yeah, this has been a a joyous moment, joy to get to know some things about sweets.

Speaker 1:

The goddess you got anything for him before I hang this phone up no, that's it all. Praises to the most high yeah, we gotta put that on some merch y'all. Uh, bye-bye. Now wait, what do they say on the phone?

Speaker 2:

bye-bye.

Speaker 1:

Now you take care we gotta do an episode about the white boys. Love y'all.

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