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"FATHER-HOOD" Ep. 35 (BONUS PACK) The Thankless Job You Can't Quit (DADS)
Losa (Fat Daddy) reunites with his old friend T-Rock to revive his podcast after a lengthy hiatus, diving deep into the complexities and rewards of fatherhood in this refreshingly honest conversation.
• The distinction between being a "dad" vs being a true "father" - anyone can be a dad, but fatherhood requires COMMITMENT
• Funny parenting moments like children knocking on refrigerator doors and stealing blocks of cheese
• The unique role fathers play as cornerstones of discipline, logic, intentionality and spiritual leadership
• How fathers PREPARE their children for the real world through sometimes UNCOVENTIONAL methods
• Reconciling with father figures - healing relationships and understanding their parenting decisions
• The IMPORTANCE of being present in your child's life and taking responsibility for the children you create
• Building LEGACY through intentional fatherhood and breaking generational curses
• Creating the benchmark for how daughters will expect to be treated in future relationships
If you know someone who has kids that they don't take care of, SHARE this episode. Become self-aware, find your spirituality, get your money right and get back to your kids because they NEED you.
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you go okay, listen, listen, listen, listen. I know this might sound crazy, but this is episode 35. It's your boy, losa, and I got I got a really, really special person who's gonna help me revive my old podcast. My last episode was in 2019 ew it's 2025 and I'm with I'm with t-rock talk to him t-rock, take some say something oh my god, y'all don't even know who this is right now, but you will.
Speaker 1:What's going on? What's going on, oh my God. And his brother. He can carry a tune, that's one thing I will say. His brother can sing, he can sing a couple songs and some ceremonies, individually and together. You know, they don't even know the extent of our relationship or what you've helped me through that's a different, that's a different episode.
Speaker 2:That's a whole different episode, bro.
Speaker 1:We might whole different episode, bro, we might have to keep this going. You might have to be a recurring visitor. Hey man, just like recurring revenue, I'm your boy.
Speaker 2:They're not ready. He didn't say the passive income, they're not ready.
Speaker 1:Okay, they're not ready, but anyways, look, this is my dog right here. This is my dog. I got, no problem man, you know what we're talking about today.
Speaker 2:I know what we're talking about. They don't know what we're talking about.
Speaker 1:Man, for all of y'all that got kids, this is for you If you don't have kids. This is the episode where you don't tune in no, you go to the next one. And it's not just if you have kids, but if you are a father, because that's the thing about it Everybody can be a father, or is it?
Speaker 1:Everybody can be a dad, but everybody can't be a father. There's a difference. There's a difference. There's a difference. So, if you haven't guessed what we're talking about today, we're talking about fatherhood. We're talking about fatherhood and the thing is, this is a. This is a thankless position to be in. However, it's one of the most satisfying, the most rewarding, the most gratifying. It is what makes us get up. This is what we snooze our alarm for. Well, actually not snooze. Let me correct myself. Correct that. Correct that we stop the alarm and stand up, don't snooze. We used to snooze. See, it's so ingrained in me. I used to snooze. Now I just stop it. Get up why.
Speaker 2:Because I'm hearing it's time.
Speaker 1:I be like baby girl, what you want to eat, I want oatmeal.
Speaker 2:My little girl going to turn into a bowl of oatmeal Mine going to turn into Hershey bar cereal fruit.
Speaker 1:What's your boy's favorite?
Speaker 2:cereal, my man's, I think. Right now he's on his, and don't judge me, chad.
Speaker 1:We listen and we don't judge. I love that my boy he is right now stuck on his chat people, no, no, we listen and we don't judge. I love that we listen.
Speaker 2:We don't judge. Yeah, my boy, he is right now stuck on his uh crunch berry kick right now he got crunch berries on the brain. He's got good taste. I had hope for him because he loved honey nut cheerios. I'm like, okay, all right, that's not bad either. That's that, it's gone. Now, that's gone now. It's it's, it's now crunch berries. He does do fruit and vegetables very well, but when dinner time roll around, he uh, you gotta have a little snack. He gotta, he gotta attitude sometimes. So I love him.
Speaker 1:But you know what baby girl snack is? Cheese, bro. I can't even hold up before we get before we get too deep, before we get too deep in it.
Speaker 2:Let me tell you right now. I was in my boy's room putting the little glowing dark stars on the ceiling. Right, Tell me why. This man walked into his room with a whole butt-in block of cheddar cheese. Bro, the whole brick, the whole brick. He walking with the brick, he walking with the brick. And I look at him, I look down and he look up at me and go like this no, and the man is eating. I'm like first of all. I'm like first of all.
Speaker 2:I'm like son of mine. I'm not going to say his name, he is a felon. I said son of mine First of all. Who did you get that from? Second of all, the audacity of you to take my butt and block of cheese that I'm using for tacos no, and you know. Pasta, whatever and you put your little cereal munch in, oh man.
Speaker 1:I'm going to tell you what happened. That's his cheese now. Oh, I didn't want it back. That's his cheese now.
Speaker 2:He left it on the table. I threw it away. I said I don't even care, no more.
Speaker 1:I got a job.
Speaker 2:You didn't let him rock out with the cheese. He put it down. It was done. He put it down he put it down.
Speaker 1:I mean, you can only eat with so much cheese and I was still petty. I'm like you know what Nobody's getting this Okay, so hold on. Was it like at least the mild cheddar, like the yellow?
Speaker 2:No, it's the brick bro.
Speaker 1:I do the medium, it's medium.
Speaker 2:That's my brick. Medium cheddar is me bro.
Speaker 1:Well, not your, my germs, that is. That is in waste management somewhere in the state that I reside. Dog, that is hilarious, bro. It was crazy. Yo, you want to know the cutest thing I ever saw my daughter do? She wanted me to open the fridge. Okay, she walked into the fridge and said daddy, I was like what's up.
Speaker 1:She said she did not knock on it I said, did you just knock on the door? I was like I guess I guess I did say knock and then you can open the door. But she asked me to open the door to the refrigerator by doing this the petty father in me.
Speaker 2:I would have been like keep knocking somebody. Answer no, I said.
Speaker 1:I said you know what? I can't even be mad because I did tell you, before you go through a door, open the door you knock right to be courteous. She wanted to be courteous to the fridge. I was like, bro, you know what? I should fire you up. That's fair, I should. I should fire you up because I was kind of sped, but it was courteous. No, not not she's not sped, but that behavior was definitely sped. She was doing what she was taught. We talking about the behavior, not her.
Speaker 2:No, no, I know that her behavior is to open the door. We so she wanted to open the door I should have specified.
Speaker 1:So she knocked Every door except the damn fridge and the closet, and she's still a baby.
Speaker 2:She's not a baby. She did the same thing Shit and we went to the car. It's a door.
Speaker 1:I get it, but come on, it's a door. I know, listen, hey, hold on, hold on, hold on me, say this. I'm not, I'm not trying to roast my baby girl. Okay, she is not even two yet. I just think it's funny. So fuck y'all if you judge me.
Speaker 2:We just said we listen, and we don't judge and we don't judge, let me tell you something, let me, let me pivot, like this. What the bible say knock and the door shall be opened, which is all right.
Speaker 1:So cool, perfect segue what I was gonna say is that for all the people who have kids or for all the people who don't have kids yet? One thing you'll notice is that you learn so much from watching what kids do. They do what that book, that B-I-B-L-E yes, that's the book for me. I'm standing alone on the word of God, b-i-b-l-e. Yeah, so they do that. They just innately get what the book says. Why? Because they're gifts from God, right, and they just do it. So, to go right back to what you said knock and the door shut. Bruh, she got it. And guess what I did? I opened the fridge, opened the door, I opened the fridge.
Speaker 2:So guess what's going to happen next time. She knocked on the car, I opened the door.
Speaker 1:She want to open. And for the folks that are girl dads, your daughter is only going to do what she sees you do. She's only going to tolerate what you teach her to tolerate. So for whoever in a few years you know, 15, 16 years down the road when she start dating, you're going to have to do a lot of work. Because my baby girl don't touch no doors. She knocks but that's about it. She knows to stand there and daddy out the door.
Speaker 2:I was about to say, and then that's going to be her introduction into her queendom.
Speaker 1:That's the benchmark, bro. If you're not opening the door, if you're not offering to pay the bill because one she's not going to need you to pay the bill but, she's going to expect you to offer at least courtship, courtship, courtship, people.
Speaker 2:Yeah, getting back to courtship, getting back to chivalry I know we're hearing that we're getting back to shit. Oh yeah, we need to bring that back we need it. Why need especially this day?
Speaker 1:and age. You know, for all the people who are like on this, equal whatever, like men and women, all right, I get it, I get it. No, we have individual roles. We do, we do. I agree with that and that's all I'm saying. Men like to feel needed. That's just. I don't know. Most people won't tell you that. But yo need us and then we will do whatever you want. Make me feel like I'm worth it.
Speaker 2:Make me feel like I'm a king.
Speaker 1:Before I leave the kid, I need it yo, this dude, stephen chandler, best pastor I ever heard. He said, bro, if you make sure your man is fed, he's not going out to look for arby's, mcdonald's or wendy's, he just had a full course meal at home whatever that may be metaphoric, metaphoric, there you go, yeah, yeah metaphoric. We ain't talking about food for real, but that's in, but that's included. Don't hold on, that's included. But I'm talking about this metaphorical analogy.
Speaker 2:You right now but I need your man if it's that box.
Speaker 1:Give him something.
Speaker 2:Give him he ain't looking for nothing else, he just got his arm at the crib. Oh he looking forward to getting back to that. Yeah, after he out, what if he get at work, long day at work and he thinking about man.
Speaker 1:I'm about to. I'm coming home. I'm coming home, I'm coming home. So, ladies, read the book. Act like a lady, think like a man. I'm plugging in him right now. Steve Harvey, what y'all motherfuckers don't read and what they say you want to hide anything from a nick, put it in the book. Put it in the book. Y'all know y'all don't read, y'all don't even read the description on the podcast. Then be like bro. What's episode six about? Read the damn description.
Speaker 2:Damn, it's a segue, not even segue, it's a prequel. It's right there.
Speaker 1:If you read the bio, you ain't gotta touch none and it's not something you want to hear, well, don't play the pod, we ain't got to touch nothing. And it's not something you want to hear? Well, don't play the pod, we ain't worried about that. We want you to come and get some info. That's why I got T-Rock here with me. You know what I'm saying, because he about to give y'all some gems. So what is your favorite part about being a father?
Speaker 2:Okay so.
Speaker 1:And what is your least favorite part? Whatever one you want to answer first, we're going to start with favorite.
Speaker 2:We're going to start with favorite. My favorite just for me personally the relationship that I have with my father as an adult now Ooh you cooking Bro. The relationship I have with my father right now, man to man and a little bit demographic. I am an African, no, I ain't saying that.
Speaker 1:Man, they know that I'm black. They know that by your voice, bro.
Speaker 2:If you didn't know, I am black and the relationship I have with my black father, who has been not a part of my life, has been my life. You know what I'm talking about. And to have a you know my man's here, old Losa, he is a girl dad, I am a boy dad. So we trading and having that watching that seed sprout into the relationship that I want to have with my son, that I have with my father. It is the most not beneficial but it is the most gratifying. No, that's paramount, it's paramount brother.
Speaker 1:really, it's the top, it's you know I'm learning on the later end right now. Yeah, just you know.
Speaker 2:No, no, no no, oh, I know, I know, I love it, I love it, I love it. But the thing about it is just, and then another great part is just carrying that name, I know it's not carrying that name. It means something. It really means something, it really does mean something. So like to have that lineage keep going.
Speaker 1:Come on now, I love it.
Speaker 2:That's legacy. Now what is he saying?
Speaker 1:legacy, legacy, legacy, legacy, legacy. Talk to him, black excellence, we gonna let him see come on, man, you gotta carry the name yeah, I love it, man.
Speaker 2:And then of course, the little stuff. Like you know, I'm a sports guy, so maybe he'll be in the sport. But even if he ain't just having, just having a relationship. The relationship is the most important because me and my father's relationship is rock solid and I'm so thankful and I cannot imagine a life to where I, my loins, produce a son and I am not the same thing that my father was. I could not live my life.
Speaker 1:Can I have an amnesty moment? Get it. This is an update for you, real time. Me and Pops is locked in. I love it Locked in, not live my life. Can I have an amnesty moment? Get it. This is an update for you, real time. Oh, man, pops is locked in. I love it. Locked in. I love it. Now. You talking about you can't imagine a life where, like you, your loins create this. He, he was feeling it. Yeah, my pops was feeling it.
Speaker 1:And when I played that kendrick song man at the garden, there was a song on there. I forget what the name of it is, but there's a song on there where he's talking about his parents and their trauma and what he's responsible for, like kendrick, is the one that's supposed to break the generational curses. So I heard that song and I called my pop. It was like two in the morning and I was like yo, pop, I got some stuff I want to tell you. I really don't give a fuck how you feel about it, but I want to touch base with you. Bro, that was the best phone call we ever had and we talk every day now. I love it For at least an hour at a minimum every day and like I got to express to him, pop, when I was playing sports, I wanted nothing more than for you to be in the stands.
Speaker 1:I would have went a little harder. You know what I mean. At some point he wasn't coming to any of my cross country meets, any of my basketball games, and I was taking that personal because everybody else's dad was there. And you see that, and I was like pop, I walked past you on a couch chilling, you was watching a game and you didn't come see mine, bro, I got my, my athletic ability from you, pop.
Speaker 1:That one, that one stung yeah, and I was like yo, I gotta get this off and tell my pops that. And he was like son, he told me the most real shit I ever heard. He said I knew that if I came you would see me and go harder. I wanted you to be able to go hard without me there. He said I just didn't know how to explain that to you, so I let you drown and boy, can you swim. That one stung me but I was like dog. He was really intentionally not supporting me because he was in a fucked up place and he couldn't like actually be there to cheer for me because he had an injury.
Speaker 2:That's what I was about to say. He tore his acl. When he was younger I was gonna ask. I was like, is he kind of not hiding, because that's a bar no, he, he was like vulnerable in that, and that's what I'm saying. Yeah, and I was exposing him that was exposing the vulnerability. He didn't't think I was going to check him on it. He was like bro.
Speaker 1:I never thought you were going to say something but since you said something.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I injured myself and, low key, I was happy for you, but I was envious that you were playing a sport that I loved, even though you learned it from me. You got your athletic ability from me. I didn't want to see you play because I missed the game. Yeah, him go. He gotta learn how to do that shit on his own. And that shit fucked me up. That's tough, but it was like look what he made me though. He made me a dog, and the whole time I was resenting him. He was, he was setting me up to like know what it's like to not have support and then go hard. Anyways, I had to thank him for that. I, low-key, like, dapped him through the phone. I was like pop you, really, you're a genius for that. Every time you told me I couldn't do something, you knew that was what I needed. Anytime somebody tells me, yo, you ain't about to do that, I'll be like watch me. And it ain't even about proving them wrong Hold this, hold this. Let me prove myself right.
Speaker 2:If I prove myself right, then guess what?
Speaker 1:As a byproduct, you're wrong as fuck. My dad made me like that. You know why? Because he's like that, my brother's like that, my older brother's like that, we all the same and he knew that he differently and uniquely parented each one of us and we all fucking dogs. I love that. So he did it right. He may have done it unconventionally.
Speaker 2:I was about. But it was right, that's a good segue, because I was about to say with me and Mike, that's crazy.
Speaker 1:This pod is heat already it's heated, bro, it's heated.
Speaker 2:We both got two brothers. Because I got two brothers, older and younger, and it's crazy that you say it like unconventional because you would think conventional, my father was there, was there, was there. But I'm not going to say he was, you know, just like, come on, get back up, get back up. No, it was the same spiel. So you say it's conventional, but it's. He says it's unconventional, but it's not. Because my father was there at the games, bringing us, coaching us up, but at the same time he was saying the same stuff like hey, if this is what you want, I'm not going to just hold your hand and say blah, blah, blah. You got to show me, you want it In the stands. He's doing that In the stands. So it's like the opposite effect, but the same aspect, because you're looking at your father and he's looking at you and you're like man, I gotta figure this out. Sports won't for me, sports won't for me but that brother can sing that's all.
Speaker 2:Sports won't for me. But my little brother, my older brother, more than my little brother, they was doing it. You know, I was learning my way. I was learning one thing I can't say.
Speaker 1:One thing I can say about you, t-rock, is boy, you're a great listener man. I think you learned that from your papa and that's what I don't even know your papa. That's what he do.
Speaker 2:That's his job. But, bro, when I tell y'all this is Losa complimenting.
Speaker 1:T-Rock right now. That brother was there with me at my rock bottom and kept the business private. You know how hard it is to spill your whole situation, the whole screen down. I share all of that.
Speaker 2:And to have somebody. Yeah, we both was. People don't let Los fool you, he was right there, for me too, because we both sitting there in his office.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but like damn near you were doing a lot for me bro.
Speaker 2:Hey bro, I was trying, I was trying you did great.
Speaker 1:I was trying, I had a place to vent at a place and it was a safe space anomaly.
Speaker 2:It's safe space. We get where this is see. Okay, yeah, okay, I don't even know what's happening right now? I'm going to have to come back because we got the next topic, because that's a part of what a man is. People don't understand what an actual man is. It's different. But to segue what a man is, back to our original topic.
Speaker 1:This is not to discredit women. Not to discredit women. We just talking about fathers and men. Right now.
Speaker 2:We talking about fathers and men. I'm a father of men, but to go back to our topic, the parts I don't like about being a father it's hard, it's freaking tough. My job that I'm in right now requires I'm in a position to where I'm lucky right now, bless, to where I can give back. But it's been people. I've been in this thing for 15 years and it's just now that's experience. You got tenure years and it's just now. That's it, that's experience. You got tenure, yeah, it's just now reaping benefits for my family.
Speaker 1:Hey, you know what? You know what? Uh, one of our old mentors his last name is foster he would have said you a crock pot leader. You've been in there getting tender. That's what he said. You know that, brother, people who really, really make influence don't really progress Through this, this ladder, in this, in this what is it called An enterprise Organization? You don't climb the ladder If you're really doing the work, because you're doing the stuff that's not documented. I don't even know If that's true. It's not Something that people Can keep track of, because you do the Behind the scenes. You do the behind the scenes. You do the phone calls late night, the pull-ups at the crib. Yeah, let me come give you a hug and pray for you and talk to you From my people, that's sports people, that's the.
Speaker 2:The film study yeah the film Everything ain't on the stat sheet.
Speaker 1:But you affecting the game, yeah, you a difference maker, a change agent, an influencer yeah, you can't track that. That's what I try, man. You, you can't track that. That's what I try, man. You produce better people. You take them, you refurbish them. You're like a sneaker collector you take the shoe that's trash, you put a new sole on it. You're like a father. You're like a father. You put the laces in new ones, you make new eyelets and now it's a brand new shoe. There you go.
Speaker 1:That's what fathers do we take the product that's fucked up and then bring it back refurbished, new, ready to go. Yeah, that's work. Yeah, so to our women, y'all are the nurturers, y'all care, take, y'all provide like food and emotional safe space. Now, so we do that too. Yeah, okay, but we are the. We are the cornerstone of discipline, of fundamentals, of logic, of intentionality, spiritual leaders that's what we are, and that is not easy. You're not going to be the fan favorite. Your kids are going to be mommy's girls and mommy's boys for a little bit, a little bit, but then when they get older, they're going to go pops. Thank you, because you show me what the world was like. Yep's, what dads do? They? Show you what the world is like they are doing.
Speaker 2:They are doing all of the experience. It's boot camp it's basically they give you the boot camp they give you the boot.
Speaker 1:You go through uh onboarding process. You go through orientation so that when you grow up you are a fully functional adult that is self-sufficient. If you have a good relationship with your father and he's all the way locked in, you're going to be a great person and I like Because we about to cook now.
Speaker 2:Yeah, go ahead. We about to cook now Because I'm about to segue.
Speaker 1:We still got 10 minutes left. We got 10 minutes. We got time, we got time, we got time, we got time a lot, but I'm about to.
Speaker 2:Really, it's cool, we about to be devil's advocate, because now we talking about you know, I like that. We talking about fathers. Now we talking about dads, okay, let's go. We talking about life bringers Okay, yeah, y'all just.
Speaker 1:These shaking dick. Yeah, that's the yeah yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that motherfucker's there, yep that motherfucker.
Speaker 1:That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2:Y'all got me cussing man. Are we talking about the same thing? We talking about dads. I said I won't.
Speaker 1:yeah, I said I won't go cuss they out here, no, no, no, this is safe space, I know.
Speaker 2:I you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, listen.
Speaker 2:Having a son, having a daughter, having two, having three, from the way I was brought up and my experiences thus far as a father, how in the fuck yes, how in the fuck can you look at the eyes in that life? Let me tell you, I got to dab you, and anything less than this is my world, this is my heart, this is where every part of my being is going.
Speaker 1:They about to kill us for this, bro.
Speaker 2:I want them to kill us Because I want these motherfuckers. I hope there's something out here. How in the fuck can you let yourself get estranged, get distant, how, how, sway, how S get distant, how, house way, house, way, how. Because, bro, I I'm telling you the first. I remember vividly, oh, when you see november, no, not 26, it's my anniversary november 6th 2021 7 43 in the morning.
Speaker 1:You sound like den.
Speaker 2:Shut up. People told me that before. I'm telling you right now, dog, it's November, I'm telling you. Let me tell you something. I'm telling you Like there's no way. I looked at that boy. My wife had a cesarean Get cut out of my wife. That's a disaster Out of his mother. First of all, the process of a cesarean is crazy.
Speaker 1:If y'all don't know what that is. That's a C-section.
Speaker 2:C-section, watching my boy get cut out of his mother. Yeah, and they bring him to me and I'm looking at him. First I heard his voice, both knees broke. I'm telling you Both knees, I don't care. And that's the next segment. If you think I ain't less of a man because I cry, I cry, fuck you.
Speaker 1:Listen, the shortest scripture in the Bible is Jesus wept. He did so. When y'all worry about crying? Jesus wept man.
Speaker 2:Shut up, shut up, cry I'm going to cry Because I was on both knees, making a puddle under my head, hearing this voice and to think that that experience like there's no way you could feel it. I don't know how, as a man, you're feeling different. I don't know how, because you talk about being a man and being, but you can't say you're a man and not feel something in that moment I got to dab you in that.
Speaker 1:That's it. I got to dab.
Speaker 2:I gotta dab you in that I gotta dab you in that I need a break, cause I'm thinking about it and it's like it's a lot.
Speaker 1:You feel it right there. It's a lot, I'm telling you. You get the frog in your throat.
Speaker 2:Your heartbeat. Yeah, right now, bro, my pops was there and I'm just thinking about Niggas man. I'm going crazy now.
Speaker 1:How do you look at a face like that? That didn't ask to be here, that needs you, that needs you, they don't even know how to swallow right.
Speaker 1:They don't know how to do nothing. They need you. They don't know how to change themselves, don't know how to use the bathroom, don't know how to walk. How can you walk away from that? I don't know when you was in there, meat to meat, going crazy, knowing you should have wrapped up, knowing you wasn't really feeling shawty, and you found out she was pregnant and you ran. You are what we call a pussy pussy handle your responsibility, nigga.
Speaker 2:What are you soft? Come on, bro, like I don't understand we ain't here fuck y'all's feelings, bro.
Speaker 1:No, because y'all don't even know how to navigate them. Anyway, you need to you need to.
Speaker 2:That's a part of it, because if you're gonna get in this space, if you're gonna get meat to meat, you better be ready to fucking face the heat deal with the, the meet-to-meet responsibilities. Yeah, exactly, you can't do that man.
Speaker 1:You can't. So any of y'all that's out here that got kids running around and you don't talk to them, you don't pay for nothing for them, you don't pray for them, you don't read to them, you are a pussy, bro, pussy, and you can come see me about that. If you feel an attack and don't ever take it off until you make a change Because, like we can't, what do we say? You can't sit with us. You can't sit with us.
Speaker 2:You can't ride with us.
Speaker 1:What do you say? Hold on, let me get this off. Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. I don't want to see you talk to you. Kick you with your skate, with your nothing man the minute your child was born and if you are not actively involved in your child's life, you can't sit. No, bro, you gotta go.
Speaker 2:You have to get up, you gotta move yourself from the table, go sit in the janice closet and eat your freaking you know what they need to do.
Speaker 1:The old school shit go sit in the corner with the dunce cap with the dunce cap you are the little with the hat, with the remember the hat with the propeller?
Speaker 2:yeah, but yeah, put that on, you are what we call.
Speaker 1:Yes, thank you, you took the word right out of my mouth that over there, over there on the east coast, in the dmv area in the north, we call you a goofy. You are a square. I ain't even about to say the n-word because you were brother, but you are goofy brother even if you ain't a brother, if you ain't you just goofy you're goofy you're goofy.
Speaker 1:How the hell you bust nuts, cream pie, do whatever the hell it is you do probably don't even know what you was doing. It was probably like two, three minutes because you don't know how to control yourself. Whatever you know, the youngins don't know, y'all here spraying shit down and being like yeah, no, nigga, no, you didn't put it down. No, you didn't, you got to put it down. She didn't even get hers off, bro. Bro, you don't even Bro.
Speaker 2:Wait, just topics is coming, I'm telling you when it's genuine.
Speaker 1:we trying to get these brothers game and y'all out here busting nuts and got a bunch of kids and you don't even want them to be affiliated with that kind of buffoonery. Oh, Go ahead. Do you understand?
Speaker 2:You know how personally, I would take that, not even if I knew. Let me tell you, los, I love you. Come on, I love you, you my dog right, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1:If you had a, especially a boy, oh, you would definitely have to check me right.
Speaker 2:If you had a black son and his last name was not beep, I would come at you. Come on, I would come at you and tell him why. Honestly, how are you?
Speaker 1:a man to a man. I'm about to steal you right now. I'm happy, bro. You're going to be so happy. You just want to.
Speaker 2:Like you, make it like you. Like you, make it like you be you cooking too much. It reminds me of being in church and pastor cooking and people just throwing towels at him like why?
Speaker 1:you throwing this?
Speaker 2:out the back Because he hitting that's an N-1. What do you?
Speaker 1:mean, yeah, my bro would check me about that how, my bro would check me about that how. And if you don't have friends in your circle like that, then guess what. You need to audit that circle.
Speaker 2:Audit your circle.
Speaker 1:You need to IRS audit them.
Speaker 2:Come on, bro, we on the same page.
Speaker 1:You need to get that out of here.
Speaker 2:Call in the IRS, audit your circle and if you can't audit your, circle, bro, then you the problem. You might be the one that they trying to audit. You might be the one that they trying to shake.
Speaker 1:You're only as strong as your weakest link, mm-hmm, and some of y'all are weak links. Stop being bitch me, mm-hmm. That shit disgusts me, bro, mm-hmm. If I had enough time I would smack all y'all, bro, and that's only everything. I love Only everything. How could you have such a beautiful gift? People would do some Bro To have one, to have one, and you got eight that you don't and you don't even talk to them.
Speaker 2:Come on, bro, what a, what a, what a mockery People are really spending Real Life, altering money on Real life, altering Fiat Bankroll, pussy, paychecks, annuals, gross income. They spending it all To have the hope Of paychecks, annuals, gross income. They spending it all to have the hope of one child. And you telling me you have the audacity to have multiple. Is that even audacity? It's audacity, the audacity to have a child and then say nah alright, here we go.
Speaker 1:Here's the last question before we wrap this up, because you say it's audacity, but I associate audacity, nah, alright, here we go. Here's the last question before we wrap this up, because you say it's audacity, but I associate audacity with like intentionality and like what if they're unaware?
Speaker 2:okay, that's different. Like I don't want to do too much on it, my thing is self-awareness is the key. Yeah, self-awareness is the key. If you, if you out in the streets and you just don't know you just doing one night stands going crazy. Yeah, if you don't know, then that's bad practice. I don't like that.
Speaker 1:Okay, all right.
Speaker 2:I don't like that. It's bad practice. I'm not going to classify you as the dad, but if you know, but you are a sperm donor, which ain't as bad.
Speaker 1:But if they know, if they know and you've gotten a paternity test and that baby is absolutely yours, and you know, and you choose not to be involved, no matter how late in the game it is, I don't matter. You better reconcile Mm-hmm. If you know you are a pussy. Pussy, that's bitch money. You got a Pussy. What's that? You are a? What is his face? What's the dude to be like? He just loads it up. I can't remember.
Speaker 2:that's what y'all are I'm thinking of that dog gloria song when she load that, fuck y'all.
Speaker 1:You know everything that's how we gonna wrap this up. Looking at, we had 29 29 yep, yo t-rock, talk to me. I appreciate you, I appreciate you.
Speaker 2:This is a crazy.
Speaker 1:First episode. I appreciate you for having me. This is the Losa Talks podcast and this is absolutely episode Trey five, and I'm with Trey T-Rock. Trey five, that's KD number, ain't it? That's KD number. Oh, easy money. Sniper, slim, reaper. Yeah, y'all got. Y'all got sniped today.
Speaker 1:Yeah, snipe today if you took this one personal let this be a cause we trying to help y'all. Don't be too in your bag about it, but like, feel what you feeling right now and do some different shit if you know you got kids you ain't taking care of. If you take nothing from this pond, be a damn father to your kid worry about yourself, become self aware, find your spirituality, get your money right and get that right back to your kid, cause they need you, they need need you. They need fathers.
Speaker 2:They need us because we some fathers. So now we're talking back to the fathers I'm proud to be.
Speaker 1:We need to make that a hashtag Proud to be a father.
Speaker 2:Just proud to be. If you know, you know Proud to be. You heard it here first. We're getting them tags.
Speaker 1:Get out of here, you filthy animals. What's that Homolone?
Speaker 2:That's Homolone.
Speaker 1:Get out of here.
Speaker 2:No, no, no no, that's a Just go do some shit, just go do something.
Speaker 1:Man, that's it. Y'all don't get no more. Bye Yep.
