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"Trust Your Gut" Ep.4 Heart Over Mind

Daryl & Torre Season 1 Episode 4

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We explore the difference between viewing relationships through rose-tinted glasses and using genuine spiritual discernment to make better life decisions. Through personal experiences and thought-provoking questions, we examine how our intuition serves as a reliable internal guidance system when we choose to listen.

• Spirit of discernment versus rose-tinted glasses in relationships
• Ignoring intuition always leads to paying a price later
• Questioning social constructs like time and leap years
• Critical comparison between faith in science versus religious faith
• How overthinking prevents us from following our intuition
• Personal stories of relationship red flags we chose to ignore
• The Holy Spirit as intuition that never leads us astray

Stop using your brain and start using your heart. If your heart tells you to do something positive, go do it without overthinking. Listen to your intuition - it won't lead you astray.

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Fat Daddy:

Okie dokie, here we go. We were having a real conversation which led to a moment like this. I believe this is episode 4 and we were supposed to do something with episode 4, but that's for later. That'll be for 5. If you don't know about the Voice, that's an F-450. Oh my god, this is Fat Daddy, and to the right I have Sweets, the Goddess, and we were talking about. Why is it that you trust me?

Sweets the Goddess:

and I answered that he hasn't given me a reason not to so far. His theory is that I'm looking at him through rose tinted glasses and ignoring red flags and everything, which I can understand why he would say that. But given everything that I've gone through in life to get to this point, my spirit of discernment is a little bit more mature than just looking at something through rose-tinted glasses. I've been around people that it looked good and it felt good, but there's always something that didn't quite feel right, couldn't put my finger on it.

Fat Daddy:

Don't like it.

Sweets the Goddess:

But something was just like that's going to end bad for you down the line. What happened when?

Fat Daddy:

you didn't listen to that. I paid for it every time. How?

Sweets the Goddess:

How did you pay for it? It wound up becoming a big issue later on down the line. Something would go left, sharp left. I'd be like you know what. I saw this and I didn't listen to it.

Fat Daddy:

Okay, this might be a reach, but, like you said, everything went left. Why is it that we wear our watch on our left hand if they want us to focus on time?

Sweets the Goddess:

I just don't think that time is real, because if it was real it would be on our right hand, right, well, I mean, I can't really speak to why it would be on the left or the right, because I mean, why do you wear it on your opposite hand?

Fat Daddy:

you, if you're dominant right hand, you were to watch on your left. If you're dominant left hand, you were to watch on your right I didn't know that.

Sweets the Goddess:

I didn't know that was like yeah, how it worked actually so it doesn't really matter.

Fat Daddy:

But time does not matter. Time is an enigma anyway, right?

Sweets the Goddess:

so, like I, said before, if we can choose when we want to set the clocks back and move it forward, then what the hell is it that shit's not real?

Fat Daddy:

they're gonna shoot us for this episode they're gonna kill us stupid.

Sweets the Goddess:

You know what else is stupid? Leap years, yeah, how you get the pick on. We get an extra day in a year. Because why? Who said?

Fat Daddy:

and what is it?

Sweets the Goddess:

every four it's like every four years. Who says?

Fat Daddy:

you know what else is. Every four years, what presidential elections? Interesting, isn't that interesting? Or is it actually supposed to be like that? I don't know.

Sweets the Goddess:

We we are talking about a lot of shit that they might not like it could be a scientific explanation, like something in the in the constellation, but what science it could be let's go there.

Fat Daddy:

Science, right. Everybody likes to worry about science and facts and all of this crap. Right, but how do you know that it's real? You read a textbook that was written by a man or a woman or something. How do you know that they didn't omit things from that textbook that they wanted you to know? How do you know that they didn't convolute what you're reading so that you don't know the truth? You don't, because you weren't there when they wrote the book. Yet all you science-believing motherfuckers like to say oh, it says that in the textbook. Well, what if I told you that my faith is in a book too? Yeah, all right, I'm gonna leave that there. It makes too much sense. Science, you guys are gay. Yep, I said it. You guys are faggots. And if you take your personal lace up that shoe and wear that shit, if it doesn't apply, let it fly, ya bitch. Alright, it's back to you. Let's see where we're at. For time, these motherfuckers can't handle it. And motherfucker isn't in the Bible. But you would know that if you read that stupid hoe.

Sweets the Goddess:

But I like to hear how you weigh in on the, you know, rose-tinted glasses versus discernment.

Fat Daddy:

Well, it happened in my last relationship. You know, I saw some things that I knew were problems and I was like, ah, you know, whatever. No, that was the wrong approach. That was the wrong approach. Although I had my rose tinted shades on. I saw some things and I was like that could be a potential problem, but no, she wouldn't do that. That was probably the worst thing. So, uh, unsolicited advice and I'm giving it to you because you're still listening Doesn't mean you asked for it or not, but I'm giving it to you. If you don't want to hear it, skip this part.

Sweets the Goddess:

uh, when you feel something, it's true wait question for you how, how far along or how mature was your spirit of discernment at the time? Would you say that it was?

Fat Daddy:

not like this it wasn't like this, but my intuition has never wronged me. The only time I've gotten into some crap is when I didn't listen to my intuition, which which people call intuition. I call it the holy spirit, because I'm not afraid to title it what it is for me. Yeah, the holy spirit will never tell me to do something that isn't for me. So, after all of these experiences, that one I chose to experience.

Sweets the Goddess:

Now, when my gut, my hunch, the intuition aka my Holy Spirit tells me something. I just listen. That's it. That's the message. Should we leave them with that?

Fat Daddy:

Leave them with that Chet. Hold um, hold on, I'm gonna leave them. That's a new one too, so y'all are gonna be referred to as chat from now on. That is a great idea that came from none other than sweets the goddess, and I think that that's something we're gonna. We're gonna do here, so chat I'm gonna leave you with something that I want you to consider. Chew it over on your own. Okay, you can do it if you want to, if you don't want to screw it.

Sweets the Goddess:

Oh, that rhymes.

Fat Daddy:

Your brain is stopping you, stop using it. In other words, don't overthink anything and let your heart take it over. Listen to your heart. If your heart says go talk to somebody, go do it. If your heart says go hug somebody, go do it. If your heart says I need to give this person a couple dollars because they look like they need it on the side of the road, go do it. Stop thinking about it. You're stopping yourself and for my fellas, if you want me to paint it real, real vivid for you, you are taking your own penis and putting it in your own butthole when you're using your brain. So I'll pass it to sweets. That's what I'm going to leave y'all with.

Sweets the Goddess:

Well, I have nothing after that. You said it all.

Fat Daddy:

Okay, so I'll follow it up For the chat. Whatever you identify as man, woman, lion, tiger, bear oh my, whatever Stop using your brain and use your heart. That is the episode number four. Stay tuned for episode five. Get the fuck out of here.

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